Beware of the Signals You’re Giving
Flirting is one of the best, and in the same time, one of the most dangerous things. Know how to differentiate a friendly flirt from a sexual one. If you don’t want anything serious with the man in case, if you just want to meet new people, make sure you give out clear signals, so that he doesn’t misunderstand you in interpreting your flirting signals.

Beware of your words and if you don’t know what to say, better keep silence than say something wrong. And, more of all, don’t just get up and leave! (?!)

Well, imagine yourself something like this (actually, the following has really happened): A man who was a Russian immigrant, with a Philosophy Doctor degree, in spite of this couldn’t find a good job for him, so in the meantime he worked as a cab driver. During his speed date with a woman, she had the worst idea of all to ask him where he worked, and after hearing his answer, she had an even worse idea that that one to get up and go to sit at the bar. It was a clear insult and it was a very wrong thing to do in the circumstances. Even if you find out that the people you have set a date with are not right for you, respect them and make them understand this, they are human beings just as you are!

Dressing Rules
Before wearing any kind of outfit, ask yourself two simple questions: “Would my mother wear this?” and “Would my daughter wear this?”. If the answers are positive, do NOT put it on. The same comes if you have doubts of whether what you’re wearing doesn’t make you look ridiculous-once you have doubts, they probably are based upon something.

These are some rules of the dress code for a speed date:

1. Be very careful in picking up the right outfit for you. If you over dress, you will for sure feel ridiculous and uncomfortable during all your date. This isn’t what you want, is it? Don’t fall into extremes, like ball dresses or sporty pants, better choose a cocktail dress or some stylish smart-casual jeans combined with something alike.
2. Wear clothes that fit you-say no to smaller sizes, that squeeze you like a fish in a tin, it’s bad for your health, and say no to larger sizes too, they will make you look like a sail ship.
3. Now, the shoes. Of course, every normal woman would tend to wear the highest heels she has in order to look the sexiest of all. It’s quite well if you’re taking a cab or take your own car, but think twice before wearing such shoes if you’re taking public transport or, even worse, if you’ll have to walk on feet for a long distance. In these situations, better take some comfortable shoes. After all, you’re going to a date, think of how much you will enjoy it if all you will do is think about the way your feet hurt.
4. The best way to feel sexy is to wear sexy underwear. It’s as simple as that and it’s quite efficient too.
5. Your makeup should be as natural as possible-it should stress all your good parts and not the contrary. Besides, it should be adequate for the occasion and for the time of the day. One of the worst mistakes would be coming to the date with a neck and a face both different in colors. Remember that your aim is to make him think your beauty is natural and not achieved.

Be Adequate
If the place where you have the date is a sophisticated restaurant, with high quality service and the best sorts of food and drinks, make sure you are one with this kind of environment. That is, dress up appropriately for the occasion, look at your best and behave yourself at your best too. If you have problems with dressing for this kind of occasions, click here to see details and advices, and have some guiding for the dressing code.

Be Positive
Positive people always attract everyone for positive energy brings only positive one in turn. So if you want to make a first and good impression, don’t even think of being angry or sad-a positive attitude will do everything for you.

Don’t Give Too Much Personal Information
One of the best, safest, fastest and most fun methods of meeting singles is speed dating. You can keep it that way as long as you don’t give too many personal details, that is your telephone number, last name, email address and so on. Just make sure you leave a sign in front of his nickname in your Fast Impressions folder and if he does the same thing with you, it means you both have an interest in each other and, thus, you will be able to meet again.

Be Yourself
People who pretend to be someone they’re not, who play certain roles as if they were on a theatre scene are not liked by any society. Just be yourself and be proud of who you are, otherwise it means you have some problems with your self-confidence, and you’ll have to solve them before going on. There is a lot of information about it, a lot of books and different courses.

Replace The Question “What Do You Do?” with “What Do You Enjoy Doing?”
Usually the question of “What do you do for a living?” spoils all, a thing related both for women and men (men, in this situation, generally think you want to check how rich they are). Besides, not everyone likes the work he’s doing and not everyone’s proud of it. Instead of this question, why not ask, “What do you enjoy doing?”